Pondering the Use of a Vibrator
5 Tips to Get You Going and Enjoying
Contributed by ToyboxCharley
You may have regular and enjoyable sex, or you may find yourself left to your own efforts in the search for sexual pleasure. Either way, many women find that without clitoral stimulation, orgasms are hard to come by (yes, pun intended). Are you one of those women who knows about vibrators but just hasn't made the move to acquire one for whatever reason? You may not know how to select your first vibrator or just where to get it discreetly. Here are some ideas to get you going.
1) Give some thought to what turns on your clitoris
As you know, the realm of intimate toys includes vibrators intended for many uses, some for multiple uses. Here we are looking for a starting model that will satisfy your need for clitoral stimulation. Think about the time when you masturbate or are stimulated. Do you like a 'good firm touch,' or is your desire a light, or fluttering clitoral contact, in order to bring you to a climax? It's very likely that you can be completely turned OFF, instead of ON, by the wrong touch.
2) How to select your first Clitoral Vibrator
To get started you need a vibrator that is super smooth. For consideration is the force of the vibrations, and the flexibility of the material. If you are a light touch person, you'll enjoy a soft, flexible vibrator. The fact that it is soft and flexible means that the vibrations are abated to some extent and give a nice light touch. An inexpensive example of this is the flexible plaything. If you like a firm touch, you'll really enjoy a solid, super-smooth bullet, with good strong vibrations, such as the exectutive power bullet, which will run all night for you.
Both of these vibrators are inexpensive, of good quality, and offering multispeed operation, and it wouldn't break your budget to try them both. Later you will be lead by your experiences with these to make decisions about other possibilities.
3) Give yourself the correct time and place to learn
You really should arrange your first session with the new and wonderful vibrator(s) so that you can be alone. It is important that you have time to find the best methods and results while you have the device in your own hands. Make sure there will be no interruptions, and if you enjoy music to relax, put on your favorite relaxing DVD, and make yourself a nice drink or a glass of wine. Hey, that's not bad counsel for ANY sexy episode.
4) Don't start with your clitoris
Start by touching and caressing other parts of your body, your neck, your nipples, your legs. Change the speeds and try again. Now you are learning about the strength of the device, and what strengths turn you on for the moment. As the experimenting continues, you will find yourself more and more drawn to the center of this whole operation - the clitoris.
5) Turn down the vibrator speed, and enjoy
When you find yourself turned on, and really wanting to go to the clitoris, do so cautiously. After all, the clitoris is very sensitive. If the vibration seems too strong, turn the speed down, or even use it over your underwear or a towel. Be sure to have good lubrication, either natural or prepared. Your natural lubrication can be absorbed considerably if you make contact through your clothes, and you may need to add a good replacement such as the Natural Lubricant, an excellent water-based lube made especially to mimic your natural lubricant.
Enjoy!
ToyboxCharley
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